Post-Divorce Life: Making Changes

Posted on by Robert J. Reeves

A common question people face after their divorce is over is: what now? With how time consuming divorce can be, you might’ve not had a lot of time to think about your post-divorce life. However, there are plenty of ways to get your new life going on the right track…

Post-Divorce Life: Get Things Going

Make new friends

An unfortunate reality of divorce is that it can sometimes cause you tolose touch with friends. Some might’ve only been friends through your ex, others might just not be comfortable with the situation. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t make some new ones in their place.

A great way to meet new friends is by going out and doing things. Maybe there’s some special even your town is having soon. Or, perhaps there’s a group related to a hobby you enjoy. Attending things like these is a great way to meet new, similar-minded people who can quickly become friends.

Organize the house

With how hectic divorce can be, it’s not uncommon for even the most organized people to fall a bit behind. However, having a cluttered and messy home can really negatively impact your mental health. Instead, it’s a good idea to take this time and get things back in order as they should be.

For starters, organization comes with plenty of health benefits. Plus, it’s great for beginning your process of letting go of your past relationship. Sort through the things you have, keep what you need, and let those other items go, either through donation, selling them, or just tossing them.

Get healthy

Many people like to use their divorce as a new starting point for the rest of their lives. Therefore, it’s very common to see people start to get healthy to kick off their post-divorce life. This is usually done through eating healthier, getting more exercise, or a combination of both.

The nice thing about getting healthy is that there’s plenty of ways you can do it. You can hit the gym, do some exercises at home, or just go for a run around the neighborhood. Not only will you feel better, but your body will thank you in the long run.

Divorce Support Network: Why It’s Important

Posted on by Robert J. Reeves

Divorce isn’t easy for anyone, especially if you feel like you have to handle everything by yourself. However, building a good divorce support network can help you get the support you need during this trying time. As it turns out, there’s plenty of people you can turn to who might be willing to offer you a hand…

Divorce Support Network: Finding Your Circle

Your family

Your family is really like the core of your divorce support network. Odds are, your family members were the first ones you told about your divorce plans. You might’ve even told them about your marriage problems before the divorce even started. Therefore, family members tend to be a great source of support for you.

Your family can help you out with a lot of things. They can help give you a place to stay, help you with babysitting, or whatever other tasks you might need to take care of. Still, you don’t have to get your whole family involved. Just your closest members is all it takes to have a good support system.

Your friends

Just behind your family in your divorce support network are your friends. For many people, their closest friends are like family. As a result, it’s clear why they too are also an important source of support. In fact, your friends can help give you support that your family might not be able to offer.

Your friends can help you in similar ways to your family, like with emotional support and babysitting. However, they can also help you relax and let go of some stress. When you feel like you need to have some fun again, turn to your friends. Spending time with them can really help get your divorce off your mind.

Outside help

Your friends and family are key parts of your divorce support network. However, sometimes you might need some extra, professional help. That’s when it’s time to seek some outside help. A new perspective can help you find some answers to the issues you’ve been dealing with.

For example, a divorce coachcan help give you some emotional support, as well as some tips for smoothing out your divorce. You can also see someone such as a therapist. Not only will they help you figure out what’s bothering you, they’ll also help you plan out methods to deal with it.